Today’s Mayan Daykeeper is Ben ~ The essence of Ben is our connection to our ancestral lines. Ben is that feeling of family, the warm cozy one. I know that is not true for all of you, however families are created in many ways, through blood, through choice, through friendship. In all cases you have an opportunity to learn from your interactions with your families. Ben holds the energy of interdependent family relationships not co-dependent ones. (Full info at bottom of post)
Ben brings the opportunity to look at our relationships with a neutral eye. Our families offer the greatest opportunities to heal and grow from my perspective, they are also therefore often the most challenging relationships we have. Today you are invited to look at those relationships and the places where they are co-dependent and interdependent.
~ What one thing can you do to release some facet of co-dependency in one of your relationships? (One step at a time, rather than setting yourself up for overwhelm or disappointment)
~ What boundary do you allow to be crossed repeatedly?
~ What action could you take towards standing in this boundary?
~ Are you willing to practice standing in this boundary?
~ Are you willing to accept that practice automatically means there will be times when you are not successful and that’s okay?
You are invited to play with standing in this boundary and treating yourself with gentle loving kindness and compassion to the best of your ability in each moment. I don’t know about you but sometimes I suck at standing in certain boundaries with certain people and other times I rock it. What I think is important is to keep practicing, and knowing that the the old adage ‘Practice Makes Perfect’ is a load of crap! There is no such thing as perfect, only increasing our successes and doing a happy dance for that.
~ Which parts of your relationships are interdependent?
To kick start that here’s Cool and the Gang with ‘Celebration’
And just for good measure, here are some old movie stars dancing to ‘Uptown Funk’ that demonstrate how to own your fabulousness
Strut your stuff people
Mayan Daykeeper Imix brought us back to the beginning of a new cycle of 20 days at the end of which is …… SPRING the season of new growth. We are a part of nature and nature has the ability to transform and grow with incredible speed in Spring. With that in mind we’re playing with the Mayan Daykeepers in this 20 day cycle to begin our own journey into Spring, fresh and rejuvenated, rearing to go.
Mayan Daykeeper Ben ~ The essence of Ben is our connection to our ancestral lines. Ben is that feeling of family, the warm cozy one. I know that is not true for all of you, however families are created in many ways, through blood, through choice, through friendship. In all cases you have an opportunity to learn from your interactions with your families. Ben holds the energy of interdependent family relationships not co-dependent ones.
Ben expresses in the human experience as
the awareness of family, including both ancestors and
the future potential of the family.
On a Ben day, there may be a general focus on the family
or other dependent relationships.
You may feel more intimate with others around you.
Be careful not to engage those close to you in obsolete family patterns.
Those born with Ben as their Daykeeper
are often responsible and devoted family members.
They may assume the responsibility of being the caretaker of the family
This is an exerpt from
Mayan Calendar Voice of the Galaxy by Raymond Mardyks and Stacia Alana-Leah
Should you wish to know your Birth Daykeeper, Contact me with your birth date.
Your interpretation and experience is your own. I can only share my personal understanding, I invite you to find your own truths and their relevance in your life. This is really important. If something resonates great, if not chuck it out. We gain nothing by ‘taking on’ others life experiences and beliefs. The juice and healing comes from within your own understanding, it is pivotal for your healing journey and manifesting what you want.